Make Rejection Your Best Friend

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Author: Elvis Preston King

Many of my student/clients feel crushed when a woman says "no." They get depressed and want to give up. Or they feel bad about themselves and think they are loser wussies. Some guys throw tantrums, get angry and blame the woman. These are natural reactions, but such reactions won't get you hot babes in the sack.

Your author, Elvis Preston King has had the good fortune of being a salesman and any good salesman knows that every no puts you just that much closer to a yes. Picking up women and getting laid is a numbers game. The more girls you approach the more girls you will lay. I know that getting rejected sucks. Your author HATES it as much as the next guy.

I had a sales manager who taught me this little secret. Don't let her hurt you twice. First when she says no and second if she hurts your attitude so that you don't approach the next girl in line! Don't ever let her hurt you twice!

Everyone, even seduction masters, hear "no" from women. Yes, the best of the best get a BIG FAT NO more than they would like to admit. Mystery, Ross Jeffries, Tyler Turden, David DeAngelo, Style, Yes, unfortunately even the Grand Master Pick Up Artist of the world hears the word "no." Yes, we are talking about Elvis Preston king here. Master pick up and seduction artists persist, and so must you. Even if it takes 1,000 no's for one yes, persistence is the secret to success.

Obviously it sucks to have a woman say "no." It also sucks to be spanking off in your room all alone. Remember: it isn't personal. Men ask, and women say "yes" or "no." Everyone, even seduction masters, hear "no" from women. They persist, and so must you. Even if it takes 1,000 no's for one yes, persistence is the only way. If your goal really is to get laid, you must never, ever, ever give up. You may give up on a particular woman, but you don't give up on your ultimate goal of tons of hot babes in the sack. This never-give-up attitude is the key difference between a guy who is successful in pick up and seduction and another guy who is at the whim of his emotions and fails frequently. The guy who doesn't let the rejection bother him succeeds, and the other guy fails. Which one do you want to be?

It is useful to view seduction as a numbers game. Keep in mind that even the most masterful seducers only pick up about 10% of women they hit on. What they do is just keep on going and enjoy the game, just like baseball you have to keep going up to bat if you want to hit the home runs.

Here are some things to remember:

It isn't personal. Every man gets rejected when they hit on cute little hotties.

There are thousands of women who would be happy for you to make hot passionate love to them tonight! You just don't know who they are yet and you give them up if you aren't willing to approach tons of women and risk rejection.

Getting laid is a numbers game. A certain percent of women will say "no" and a certain percent will say "yes."

Look at successful sports figures. Babe Ruth had the most home runs, but he also had the most strike-outs! Like Babe, you must be willing to swing at the ball and get your home runs.

If you are rejected, just go on to the next woman. That's all there is to it.